I'm happy and flattered you've decided to meet with me!  I promise to treat you and your information with complete discretion and respect.  I know how nerve wracking it can be to trust someone you are not familiar with, and I appreciate the confidence you've placed in me and I promise, I won't let you down!

If you are a member on any of the Review Sites such as TER, P411, Eccie, Erotic Monkey or GrainBeltNews I will need you to complete the following steps to meet with me:

1.  Please send me a message on that board!  This allows me to ensure that you are indeed a member in good standing!  You would be shocked at the number of gents that have lost access to boards due to bad behavior that will attempt to see us.  Our mutual safety is important!

2.  Fill in the contact form and please remember to include your references in the comment section (Who you saw, where you saw them, Approx date you visited with them and a memory jogger to help them recall who you are!)  

3.  Your references should be current (in the last 12 months) to meet with me.  The ladies vouching you should be verifiable, well reviewed, and with a professional website.

If you do not have references and are new to professional dating, you can expect that I will want to verify you in another manner which may include verifying your profession.  I treat your personal information with the utmost discretion and respect, and destroy it after I have verified you.  This profession can be dangerous, and I verify to ensure I do not run into would be rapists, robbers, or federal and local authorities. I verify everyone to ensure the safety of every client coming to meet with me, so that you and I can be comfortable behind closed doors.  I do not skip this step with anyone as you do not want to be the next gent through my doors should I have been compromised!

There are a few professional verification sites that will work verify you, if you are uncomfortable providing your information to me.  Just bear in mind it will cost you $$ to become a verified member on their site and they require the same information I would require from you.  Here are a couple of good sites to use if you wish to be verified professionally:

Please refrain from referencing anything illegal with the use of acronyms or in a coded manner or outright asking me for illegal services when connecting with me.  You only have one chance to make a first impression, make yours a good one!

Xoxo Til I am In Your Arms!